Dear holyhall:

I believe that you owe it to yourself to not suffer when you have the choice (to suffer- or not). If you have suffered a whole lot in your marriage, then, I say, end it.

From your share, he is not doing well either in the marriage, having all the health problem he has and not taking care of himself. It may very well be for his benefit (not only yours)- that you end the marriage. He might get physically healthier as a result.

Maybe, I am wondering, maybe he wants it to end as well… part of him, at the least.

???

anita