Nina,

Thank you for the reply.. That’s exactly what has happened.. I accepted the love, blindly, without assessing about or further knowing about this person in depth, about emotional stability, being committed and caring for me… Thanks for the eye opener..

About the vicious cycle, it’s still happening as I write this, since this person is still connected to me, somehow or the other, but not directly, since this person is my relative, and I have to see or interact with this person every now and then, once in a while…Not sure, how to break this up and go out of contact completely…