Dear Kk,

When deciding what to do next, consider what you would like life to be like after 3 years, 5 years and what could it be based on the current situation. The facts are (as per my understanding):

1) He wont leave his wife right now.
2) His financial position isn’t strong.
3) He doesn’t have any relationship with his wife.

According to you, 1 will change when 2 does – what about 3 ?

And what about you? Will you keep waiting for a married man to become financially stable and then leave his wife for you?

I know that from an emotional point of view, you can’t imagine a life without him but there is more to life than him and holding on to this is crushing your spirit.

What would you advice another friend in this situation?

Regards,
Nina