Dear Anna:

I suppose you have nothing to lose by talking to the fiancée’s parents on the phone…? Or do you?

Another thing to consider: if you talk to them on the phone and nothing changes, the wedding goes through- will her parents give your boyfriend (at that future point he would be their son-in-law) a hard time, make him suffer knowing he had a girlfriend while engaged to their daughter?

So these are two possible consequences for you to consider and talk to your boyfriend about: these two consequences I mentioned here in this post.

anita