To anita:

How about a friend that I have been close with and we share all kind of stuff- personal thoughts and attitude towars the others that we both know, for instance. How do I evaluate such close peorson to me when he/she is acting like the friends everybody dreams of, cares for you, wants to be wth you and listen to you and in the same time talks bad about people that he/she previously has known and is not with them anymore (it could have been my friend’s friend that deserves it how could I have known), acts kindly to my other friends , yet when we that special friend of mine is with me talks bad about them again. Moreover, he/she wants to talk with me everyday and por conversations could last forever and it feel great, but when it comes to him/her meeting friends that I won’t like he/she will expect me to call him/her so that he/she could have the reson to het rid of that friends and then come to me, yet he/she won’t do that unless there is a certainty that I for sure will be with himher when he needs me. It sound kin of strange put in such ways and I am little confused how to describe it but if you don’t get it I will try to be more precise.