Anita, I will admit I’ve been trying, although it’s been difficult. He’s very reserved and admitted he’s uncomfortable about talking about things that are “very deep.” He said it makes him feel emotionally exhausted to have long discussions about these types of things. For example, last night I casually asked if he had been in love before. He quickly said, “yes.” He did not offer any more information. I thought I would probe a little deeper with one more question and asked, “You said you were in a two-year-long relationship. Was that the relationship where you were in love?” Again, he just answered “yes.” He did not engage in further discussion. He did not ask me if I’ve ever been in love. He honestly seemed uncomfortable so I dropped it and we started talking about a much different, lighter topic.