Hi Anita,

I hid my ex from my boyfriend because I knew my boyfriend wouldn’t understand…. I didn’t hide my boyfriend, we were together for 3 years.. broke up with me and left me.. dated new guy… broke up with him and eventually got back together with the first ( 7 year boyfriend) …. My ex and i remained friends, but not friends that talked everyday or often…. It was a subject that was never brought up… I guess by omission I was hiding it… I also knew he HATED my bf for what he did to me ( he abandoned me ) so I just never felt comfortable enough telling him…

I want to be honest, honest with my love…. But its so hard when we aren’t speaking…. And denial in terms of – denial that its over, or that we can still work this out?

Thanks Anita!