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October 18, 2016 at 6:02 am
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AnonymousInactive
Let him go.
You can’t help him, but you can hurt yourself by continuing to try. Tell him it’s over and set him a deadline by which he needs to move out. Start making plans for life without him.
I wasted too many years on a guy like that, and still had to dump him in the end. He’s doing all right without me. Go figure.
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