What about texting? unless we are going to hangout or i’m bringing people over to her work and she asks how many she never texts me first anymore like she did all Sept and early October. She still knows very little about me, i’m the only one who asks the questions to get to know her. She used to text me just to say hi, now i’m pretty sure if I stopped texting her i’ll never hear from her again lol, so I try texting her 2-3 days a week just to catch up. People at my work say they don’t text eachother often, the way it sounds like it has to be them to text her. She did say I can come over to her job anytime even if it’s a lot, but it’s a restaurant so yeah I literally could come everyday if I choose, but i’ll stick to a few times a month maybe unless i’m in the area then i’ll just drop in and say hi.

I dunno how people can go long periods of time not texting their friends…isn’t friendship staying in touch with the person? texting AND in person. Not like once a month sort of thing, but a regular basis, or you’re just being an aquantance. Maybe my idea of a friendship is all wrong? my idea of a friendship is staying in touch with them in person and texting on a regular basis. Not everyday! but maybe a few times a week sort of thing? afterall you need time to yourself aswell and do your thing. We don’t hang out much, so we just got the texting thing down and that’s only because i’m the one texting or i’d not consider this a friendship.

Maybe i’m just overthinking this? I dunno…