Dear emberlyn:

Maybe he meant he missed their time together as friends. If he did mean that, after she didn’t answer his first, second, third… fifth text, I hope he is no longer chasing her for friendship. If she wanted him back at one point, as a boyfriend, it is not wise for him to pursue her as a friend.

I hope you spend good, quality time with your boyfriend these holidays and onward. Like I wrote to you before- a transition in attachment takes a bit of time: his attachment to her will weaken as his attachment to you gets stronger.

anita