Dear clemmonce:

You wrote that you need encouragement to keep the 6-week No Contact with your ex girlfriend and not to re-start the relationship, which you felt from the beginning, was not right for you, a relationship full of discord.

In the word “encouragement” there is the word “courage”- I believe you need the courage to endure the distress of loneliness without reacting to it by restarting this unhappy relationship.

Since you are distressed not being in a relationship for six weeks, is it possible for you to meet a different woman, or women, so to choose a future girlfriend who is not selfish and who will love you?

anita