Dear lexylexy07:

1. why did he delete it instead of just changing password?- I don’t know, but either case, it means he did not want you to contact him.

2. should i keep waiting for him to contact me first?- it is better that you wait for him to contact you than that you try to contact him first; but better than you waiting is you giving up on contacting him altogether because he made it very clear that he doesn’t want you to contact him, and you should respect his assertion.

3. What if he never contacts me again?- live your life without him. Make your next relationship with a man a healthier relationship where there are no fights, no begging, no reuniting and then fighting and breaking up again. Instead of all that drama, all that war- make that next relationship be about love and peace.

4. Next week is valentines day and also our anniversary can i contact him?- no, because he made it very clear that he doesn’t want to have any contact with you. Respect his wish, his choice, his assertion. Respect him- it is his right to make the choice he has made.

5. he seems to not care at all cause he did not even give a closure or talk to me properly. What could possibly be the reason for that?- a possible reason is that he is tired of all the drama, the fighting, the begging, the getting back together and breaking up. Maybe he realizes the truth: that fighting is not a necessary part of a relationship, and that a loving and peaceful relationship is better, way, way better. Don’t you?

anita