Hi Anita,

My ultimate goal is to be coming from a solid place of compassion and love when I do have that talk with him. I don’t want any insecurities or expectations to come into play here. I think I have a little bit of emotional discovery left to do before I can really hone that mindset.

I agree, its tough knowing someone for 4 months, and though it is very slow moving, being unsure of what he thinks of me. Its scary to keep pressing forward without knowing those things. I like the way you bring up having the discussion casually, that sounds like a balanced way to do it.

My main personal goal here is to do everything in my own power correctly, so if it doesn’t work out, I can at least say that I behaved in a way that gave us the best chance at having something great. 🙂