Dear bricklady:

By the time you read this, it will probably be after your therapy session. I am curious to know what happened in therapy and will welcome you sharing.

I read your last post and it occurred to me that this period of time, this one month today has been really, a time during which you have been actively waiting and reaching out to him to reconnect. It has not been a time when you retreated, to match his retreat and wait.

It has not been a break but a chase: you chasing him.

And you learned that at this point “He does not want to see me, nor does he want the kids to see me.”

And you wrote that he does not “communicate with me what he is doing to work on himself and how its going.”

Looking forward to your next post.

anita