Dear Carrie:

In my effort to be helpful, I need to understand further:

When you took a year off from work, to do the Master course, “the first weeks left (you) shocked”- why were you shocked; what was the distress about?

Next, you changed your study program. You were not eating and “hurting (yourself) at the time”- how did you hurt yourself at the time?

You “´outsourced´(the change of program) to others. Already when I was making the change I knew it was a wrong decision and that the new program was not for me. But I decided to listen to advice and give it a try, overcome my resistance.”-

Who did you outsource the decision to?

How long have you been outsourcing life choices instead of making your own; when did it start, in what circumstances?

When you did make your own choices as a child, how were those choices received by your parents.?

anita