Dear wildoceanflower:

You are good enough when you feel it and when you don’t feel it.

I don’t believe in destiny, therefore I don’t believe that you are destined to live alone.

You wrote that you let everyone else be first, taking care of them, but “who is going to look out for me?” you asked. Good point. Seems like your habits of putting others first, fitting into their lives and not asking for help when you need help, all these didn’t work for your benefit. Better then to change these habits. Look after yourself first.

anita