Dear Aks:

So his parents are not willing to talk to your parents, but he is not putting any pressure on his parents, is he?

He is not talking to your parents either, is he?

He does nothing to solve the problem except for blaming you: “why are you not leaving your home…u r not bold enough to take this decision…”

He told you to “take stand and just say that i wil marry him only…and he also asked if you didnt have the courage…”-

He doesn’t have the courage to talk to your parents and he hasn’t done so. All he does is blame you for not having courage while he is showing no courage. He is not taking a stand with your parents.

I don’t like your boyfriend. I recommend you end this relationship. I agree with your sister and your parents regarding this man: he is not a good choice for a husband.

If you marry him, I believe, he will continue to BLAME you for future problems (and there will be future problems) and take no responsibility and no action himself. This may very well be how he operates, a behavioral pattern.

I recommend that you break up with him, heal, and within a few months, a year, maybe, I hope, you will be able to open your heart to a man who will be fair and kind to you, a man who takes personal responsibility for his life (instead of blaming you for his… lack of courage and inaction).

anita

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