Dear Aks:

I agree with and support your conclusion: “I will wait for some days..it could be possible that he would do something from his end to save our relationship..else i will not have any other option to end all this…because i cant see any other thing which i can do from my end…”- good thinking on your part. Excellent.

The pressure the boyfriend placed on you all this time is and has been unfair to you: he has done you wrong in this regard. Reject that pressure- you don’t deserve that pressure-torture. It has caused you suffering and that is not right for you.

Like I wrote, I don’t like that boyfriend. If he can’t do anything on his end to make this a good relationship and one that will go toward marriage, then end this. Give him back the pressure, let it be his.

Post again anytime you want.

anita