Dear Sleepy_Kiki:

You wrote above: “he liked me so he thought he could mold into something for me”- or he just lied, for example he lied to you about being willing to travel where it involves long plane flights.

There are a multiple topics in your posts. A few I don’t understand, like why he refused to make you tea and what you meant by “if I didn’t catch the ‘fault’ things seemed to spiral out of control.”

Regarding your concern about his well-being, wanting to help him- you wrote: “I also felt like I was a toy to him. It felt like he didn’t want to know about me anymore”- I don’t think a toy can help the person playing with it. A toy is a passive thing, has no say. The one playing with the toy decides what to do, when and how. And if he didn’t want to know you more, doesn’t that mean that he has no interest in what you want to teach him/ help him with?

anita