” Sometimes, giving people a second chance, such as the man you speak of, is like giving someone extra bullets because they missed you the first time.” very good, very good..

if you come from a family where you learned respect, with kindness and empathy. where anger is under control, and your boyfriend is not from that back ground, it will take him a long time to learn how to be that kind of a true kind person.

You do not want to wait for him to learn. He may never. some people will always carry that negative way with them. The kind emotional secure people are taught this in childhood.