Hi Everyone,

I need some advice and support.

I recently met this guy online and we clicked instantly. We had a lot in common and were looking for same thing. He wanted to meet for breakfast right as we were talking and I said lets just do it tomorrow, he seemed very anxious to meet so I wanted to wait to see how he was. So we talked all day and met for breakfast the next day. It was awesome. I really liked him and we just clicked. We went for a walk on the beach after . It was awesome. After he showed me his own place, we kissed and it was amazing . He was going on vacacation the next day for 2 weeks and asked if I wanted to get drinks later that night. So I agreed. He ended up blowing me off that night .

I tried to get a hold of him all that night with no answer.  He text me the next morning and I forgave him and gave him a second chance.

we ended up texting the entire time he was on vacation. We just clicked. He did come on very strong with everything he wanted to do when he got back, plans, that he felt love for me . I was just like ok. Maybe it’s love at first sight. I just knew that I liked him a lot and couldn’t wait to see him when I got back.  It was all just so exciting.

So 2 weeks after we met we planned to just have a relaxing day at his apt. I went to his house after work. I just cldnt wait to see him.

As soon as I got there it was like instant chemistry. We kissed and has sex right away . We ended up smoking pot and having sex all day. We watched movies, kissed, and cuddled. We just clicked and it felt amazing to be with him. I had planned on spending the night there. I got there at 1 pm and at around 9:30 he was like umm do you mimd sleeping at your house, I need some alone time ?  my heart just sank, I was like what ?

he had said he cldnt wait to sleep with me in his arms and now he wanted me out of there. I asked him what happened and he said it all just hit him. All of this and he needed some space. I was like omg . This isn’t happening . He ended up getting me an Uber because I cldnt drive . I was like wow this guy really wants me out of here. So I left and felt mortified.

The next morning I woke with anxiety. No text or nothing from him. He always text me at like 6 am and it was 8:30 am. So I text and called him. I pretty much had to hunt him down to get a hold of him. My car was at him house and I needed it and he really didn’t seem to care. So finally he text and me and said do you want to swing by and pick you up so you can get your car ? Once he picked me up it was all weird . He said that he wasn’t sure if he was ready for this and needed time to think about it . I was like what .

He said can we slow it down , can we just hang out , I need to hang out . I just said that I wasn’t looking for that . I wanted to date him. So that was it .

he dropped me off.

I got upset and text him later that day trying to figure out what happened and why he did this. He just said leave me alone . I said some other things like how hurt I was , confused, and that I would give him all the space he needed. That was it . I then deleted him on  my social media.

So now 4 days later and I haven’t heard anything . I think I just met a bad guy that just messed with my head. I feel horrible and mortified. Why did he do this? Was it all a game just for sex?

let me know what you guys think