Thanks for sharing your opinion! Huge thanks!

So after i have read the firs advice that PearceHawk gave I was determined to tell everything and was filled with negative emotions, especially disgust and hate towards this man. I told him that night that the day after me and my sister are going to visit them but eventually it came out we could not and , most of all, I was too angry to go there and meet that shitty person. So he texted me again the next day asking if we were to come and I saidwe were busy and after that I barely answered his messages and finally told him that if I wanna go and see my cousin and her baby I am gonna text her. So that did not seem to trouble him and he continued to ask what me and my sister were up to and asked if I was  mad at him about something(really?). I did not text back and he gave up. Since then I have not contacted my cousing or him, or anyone else and I plan to do this way. After all, they did not treat each other with respect and as if they are a couple- as i said they are constatly fighting and my cousin is sometimes really aggressive towards him which makes me think that she knows what he is up to, but still stays with him. I will probably listen to you , anita, and not involve myself in this family drama anymore and keep in touch only with my cousin and ignore him. anyway, I am still worried that the next time I go there she will probably notice the change of my attitude towards him( I would probably look at him with disgust and be more protective when she is concerned) …