Hey Kate!

I feel you. I am kind of same boat as you are, Questioning the relation i have with my boyfriend. We have been together for 3 years! Living in 2 years. All of sudden i dont feel the “passion” or “butterfly feeling” which i used to get.

But, to my believe every relation goes through these stages. The most important thing we should look in our partner is love,commitment,trust,respect! If you have all that-We should try and make it work and take this low confusing feeling as a phase!

Every relation looses its initial spark after sometime, and that’s the time when our relation matures. May be there are others factors in our life that are disturbing us and making us frustrated. We come home to same person every day,see same face every morning and night-as result we want to change that by taking our frustration out.

But this is just to my own believe. Being Happy is the most important thing 🙂

Love

Keerthi