Anita thank you so much for this, is has opened my eyes, really, THANK YOU. I can see everything in a different way, it is amazing that just by readng something a new perspective appears.

I do love him, believe me, I just didn’t realize that I cannot change him, at least not like that, that he can change only for himself, and in his time, and my love for him should mean that, me respecting his time, his pace, and his decisions.

I’m trying to be as supportive as I can with his work right now, and giving him space to feel better about us, we text every morning and at night, and I try to motivate him on the mornings so he feels he can achieve everything and most of all, that I truly believe in him.

Yesterday I talked to him about going to another counselor, he agreed, it makes me a little bit happy.