Connie,

I feel a lot of emotions reading your last post.

“It’s his birthday today. I wonder whom he spends this day with, is he happy? I hope so much I could still be part of his life. But it’s over, it really is over.”

I struggled with the same questions and finality feelings for weeks, but my ex told me that I do not need to worry about him at all.

He will be happy, he will eat well, and he will take care of himself well.

Life goes … on. For both you and R.

I am sure that you struggle a lot with the break up, but you are still taking care of yourself well, right? (hopefully)

He wish you well, Connie. If he really loved you, he will be wishing you the best in your life.

You do not have to worry about R, worry about yourself first. A new love will come, and you will soon understand and realise that R will always be a special person in your life.

Why? Because you guys loved each other very much at some point in your lives. and that will always be something worth remembering.

-Mina