Anita,

I had an important update regarding everything.

I decided to talk to my parents regarding everything this morning, I think that they are starting to see how serious the problem is.

I told my mother and father almost everything that I had felt, including how they rejected me in a sense.

The conversation did not turned out so well, but it was n0t as bad as I think.

I think a door has opened for me. (to move university somehow)

My mother suggested that I go to the counsellor of K University first before we decided anything and that I have to think very throughly about this.

She asked me if I had the confidence that I would be HAPPY if I do move to Singapore? that do I have the commitment to FINISH my university if i do move?

My father as usual is very hard on me, but he will come around somehow – I believe. My uncle (my fathers brother) did not finished college and married someone that my entire family despises (especially my father) but my father did not abandoned his brother. He still support him financially and defended my uncle saying how after all he is still his brother.

I think when it comes to choosing between me vs their pride, they have no choice but to choose me. I am their daughter after all.

I do not know. Do you think that moving is the solution to my problem, Anita?

Please give your opinion.

-Monica