Growing up to be like my father is something I’ve wanted to avoid my whole life. Its something I’ve always had in the back of my mind.

I want to reiterate here Anita that I’m not looking to cheat/have an open or polygamous relationship. I firmly believe in and support the concept of Monogamy and although there may be people who feel comfortable with the concept, I believe a monogamous relationship is the only way two people should be together. Once again, other people are more than welcome to have different views and I have nothing against them, but this is how I feel about it. So no, I’m not looking for an extra marital/out of relationship experience.