Peter,

I believe I do want to end the relationship solely for the purpose of getting closer to the inner that I desire so I think I am doing as you said.

“You have a lot of hurdles to overcome in your journey of becoming your best self. Such is the hero’s Journey. You can remain fixated on the things you can’t change, envious of everyone’s else imagined good fortune, the unfairness of it all, and doing so allow outer influences to determine who you become. Or you can say enough. These are the challenges I face and I will face them, these challenges are just that challenges nothing more… I will not allow them to change me in ways I don’t wish to be changed.”

This is powerful and much needed advice thank you so much !!