Dear LJDilemma:

You wrote that you lost your friends “for reasons I just don’t know”. My suggestion: get to know the reasons, talk to that friend, or to anyone who can shed light on the reasons.

You wrote: ” Even though I apologized (for what I believe not to be my fault)”- what is it that you apologized for? The reason may be there.

Also, not a good idea to apologize when you believe there was nothing you did wrong. That takes away all meaning from an apology.

anita