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  • December 19, 2017 at 7:25 am #182789
    mick
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    I guess you can say its “KARMA” for me atm.

    I I ran around with a women who was in a relationship  for 17 years and married for 10 of those. She left her husband got her own house and we kept on seeing one another every night.

    She used to be a big girl but lost heaps of weight and is getting  all this attention  now and that was how we hooked up.

    Anyway i eventually  fell for her after she told me she loved me but she was never comfortable  being seen with me.

    We had a argument  didnt speak for 3 weeks she met some one on Tinder and now is in another  relationship.

    While i am in misery, hurting,crying, Deppresed.

     

    December 19, 2017 at 7:45 am #182821
    Anonymous
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    Dear mick:

    To understand better I ask: why was she uncomfortable being seen with you, and what was your latest argument about?

    anita

    December 19, 2017 at 4:43 pm #182861
    mick
    Participant

    Probly uncomfortable  cause she just left her marriage  and i dunno i am 44 and she is 32 and it wasnt a argument  just a disagreement but i felt i was good enough to sleep with  on the sly but not good enough  to be shown in public

    December 20, 2017 at 4:32 am #182881
    Anonymous
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    Dear mick:

    Reads to me like you don’t know her well, don’t know her motivations, her reasons, her goals, as if  there were no honest, in depth conversations between the two of you.

    You feel that she was uncomfortable being seen in public with you- was she uncomfortable, I wonder. Did she tell you that she was, did you ask her if she was, and if she told you so, didn’t you ask her why?

    anita

    December 20, 2017 at 1:01 pm #182939
    mick
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    I didnt ask her but i assume  it was because  she didnt want to verify  yo her x husband that we were having an affair behind his back.

    Anyway she has moved on 2 months after we split and i assume she is happy now , i have to start accepting this now simple as that

    December 21, 2017 at 4:46 am #183113
    Anonymous
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    Dear mick:

    I hope you do move on, and that the next woman you will be in a relationship with, will be single, available and that you will have conversations beforehand, getting to know each other, asking each other questions and answering honestly, showing each other empathy and respect throughout.

    anita

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