Anita:

For some reason, yes, my ex-husband was a very decent man aswell. My current husband is a fantastic man, too!

I haven’t had any episode (not yet) with a man cheating, or playing games with me.

I’m a very straightforward person, too. I’ve never played games with anybody, and with this man i said right from the beginning that i didn’t felt like “ready” to have a serious plan. In fact, when i met him, we have a nice talk at the bar, and then i said “i have to leave”, and he asked for my cellphone number. I said “no way!”. He asked again. I said no again. Then, i said bye and took my car (i had to carry my drunk friend to the car, and drop her in her place safely). When i was leaving the street, i saw this guy walking down the street, so i asked if he needed a ride to his place (by coincidence, he happened to live really close to my friend’s house – he had told me during our conversation at the bar). So as he was without his car, i dropped him onto his place, and then he said: PLEASE, may i have your number? i’m gonna call you tomorrow. i said: OK OK, i don’t believe you, but there you have it….). I gave my phone number. He called the day after, and we had dinner together.

I mean, when i was out just for fun, i always made it clear to the guys i was hanging out. This guy was certainly a serious guy, and i kind of knew it from the beginning…  never wanted to play with him, too.