For my boyfriend and me, we’re way past that incident. We’ve both grown and changed.

Tell that to your parents then. I understand the pressure that comes from Asian parents about one’s choice of partner. However, as an Asian myself, I feel that we need to stand up for our own beliefs. For me, if my parents approve of my partner, then it is good. If they don’t approve (without good reason) then I will continue to be with my partner. It is my future, my happiness, my choice. Do bear in mind, they want the best for you. Try to listen to what they have to say and make decisions from it.