Sorry it has taken me a whole to respond, Meredith and Rachael I really appreciate what you have wrote and the advice you have given, it’s given me lots of things to think about and work on.

Also thank you Anita I appreciate you taking the time to look into my conditions, although the information is unfortunately pretty inaccurate I appreciate that you took the time to look which is much more than many most people in my life have done.  It’s very frustrating this inaccurate information is still out there but I’m hoping things are starting to change.