Home→Forums→Relationships→Boyfriend is depressed (I think) and broke up with me→Reply To: Boyfriend is depressed (I think) and broke up with me
March 16, 2018 at 8:11 am
#197631
AnonymousGuest
Dear Hailie:
You are very welcome. I don’t think he can handle any ambiguity from a person in an intimate relationship, or otherwise. He has to know that you mean what you say and say what you mean. Otherwise, he will be lost in torture because of the thoughts he has, thoughts that get activated when he encounters ambiguity.
These thoughts are that he is the worst, a bad person, needs to be punished and so forth.
anita
Though I run this site, it is not mine. It's ours. It's not about me. It's about us. Your stories and your wisdom are just as meaningful as mine. 