Hi Hailie,

No two situations are the same but yours sure does sound very similar to what has just happened to me as well the other day. He split up with me completely out of the blue after a day of being affectionate and caring, broke down crying saying he needs to “fix himself” before he is in a relationship with anyone. It came as a complete shock so I understand how you are feeling. He also never really opened up to me about what was really wrong however much I tried to help. I can’t really help much as I’m in the same predicament but all I can say (which I am also telling myself) is please don’t blame yourself or think that it is anything you have done. Easier said than done, I know. It’s a very sad situation to be in – I hope he gets the help he needs and that you are not too damaged by this happening to you.

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