Dear Lynda:

You are welcome.

Nothing  you choose will be a perfect solution. There are a number of problems and not all of them can be settles  with once choice. If you wait for a choice that  will take care of all problems, present  and future, you will not choose anything at all, other  than… letting circumstances deteriorate.

Choose what will solve the  most urgent problem and leave the rest for later. The  most urgent problem is the aggression you are experiencing on the part of your neighbors. Wales reads fine at this point.

anita