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Dear tori:
It reads to me that there is serious element of dishonesty in his behavior- ending the relationship with you “out of the blue”,without telling you his honest reasons, but instead giving you what you termed “fake reasons”, then coming up with reasons that make me wonder why he didn’t share these with you when he broke up with you.. or before.
Then there is his baby’s mother getting along with you, then “all the sudden”, she changed her mind.
She had a boyfriend, then she wants your boyfriend back..
Reads to me that there has been communication between your now ex boyfriend and the mother of his child that he didn’t share with you, just as he didn’t share a lot of other things with you.
The title of your thread is stonewalling. I am not sure what it means but dishonesty probably needs to be considered when trying to figure out his behavior.
How do you feel about all this…?
anita