Thank you all for your advice, it is similar to what my friends and family have advised me. I think I was desperate to hear something else because it is hard to let him go when I know that we had future plans and have always had a very good and fun relationship. I thought we could make it through this hard time in his life together as a team but he was more inclined to do it on his own and keep me out of it which only added to his stress because it caused disagreements. I felt so betrayed that he just decided to leave me and go back to her just to see his kid when we had spent so much time figuring out how he was going to get to see his child despite the mothers efforts to keep him away. I am in a way glad that it happened now before things had gotten farther and I had formed an attachment to the child.

I appreciate everyone’s thoughts and advice.