Dear urooz:

It is a terrible thing to be betrayed. And yet people betray others a whole lot. This is a very unfortunate reality. Betray others’ trust and keep going with their lives.

Before figuring whether to contact him, make sure that you are not betraying others as you figure out what to do.

You are married and your husband cares for and respects you. Have you been betraying him when you were in a relationship with this man? Does he trust you and have you betrayed his trust?

All betrayal is a bad thing, this man’s betrayal of your trust and your betrayal of your husband’s trust (assuming he trusts you).

What do you think?

anita