I’m sorry to hear about your situation and am sending positive thoughts your way. I can only share my personal experience, but I feel like when someone breaks up with you and then later wants to get back together- it seems that the chances of it working out are about as close to winning the lottery. The first person I ever loved would always do the “I can’t be with you” and then suddenly he’d have a change of heart and the cycle just repeated. I didn’t want to believe the “I can’t be with you” part. I only wanted to believe the “I didn’t mean it, I need you in my life after all” part. Well, long story short we got engaged and he ended up calling off our wedding. Needless to say that was the final straw. Amazingly, he came back about 6 months after we’d fully separated saying he made a huge mistake and wanted to be with me.

Not. this. time. I didn’t take him back. My uncle once told me that if someone you love leaves you: don’t walk away, run away. It may be a little black and white for most people, but if someone breaks up with me then we’re over and I’m taking that as my sign to let go and move on.

I wish you the best of luck!