Dear Eve:

I don’t think you should reach out to him because you are doing better since the breakup: “I am doing better now and try to come to terms with it”,

and because he communicated to you the following:

– that he doesn’t want you involved in his recovery treatment

-that his recovery might take a long time

– that he still doesn’t want you involved in his recovery and he is still recovering (he didn’t reach out to you).

Are you hoping to resume the relationship with him sometime in the future; did he mention to you that as a possibility?

anita