Dear Katie:

I think that you shared before that he wanted proof that you love him, that you do things to prove that to him, am I remembering correctly? If so, his demand that you sleep over in his house and then complaining: if you loved me… is consistent with his prior behavior.

Also consistent, if I am correct,  is that there were breakups before and reconciliations. Is this one of these times, do you think?

* Too bad he said things for the purpose of hurting your feelings, comparing you to an ex girlfriend, hurtful. Did he do that before?

anita