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  • May 8, 2018 at 8:15 am #206059
    skyblue
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    in these past 2-3 months, i have been getting close to my crush. At first, she reacts in a positive light. as 50% of the time, she is the one initating texts and meet up. Things are actually going really well. But in the past 2 weeks, i notice a change. she barely texts me first as i am the one initiating. she also doesn’t seem as eager when i try to arrange a meet up. Note that she doesn’t ignore me and she still treats/replies me well up to this point. But something is definitely different. She’s already aware of my feelings since month ago. so im sure that the issue isn’t due to me being too slow. I decided to stop contacting her for now. but honestly it has been hard for me. i have gotten attached to her as she has been a great source of strength for me. one plan i could think of is, to stop contacting her for a month and confess (ask her to date me) in my birthday next month. what do you think of this?

    May 8, 2018 at 9:30 am #206133
    Anonymous
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    Dear skyblue:

    I didn’t understand: for 2-3 months that you met up with her, those meet ups were not dates? If they were not dates, what were they?

    anita

    May 9, 2018 at 5:56 pm #206557
    skyblue
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    hi, anita. they were not officialy ‘dates’. but it only consists only of me and her, so you could call them dates. at firsts we are just doing assignments together, but later we would go to movies, dinner, and etc

    May 10, 2018 at 6:53 am #206613
    Anonymous
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    Dear skyblue:

    You wrote: “one plan I could think of is, to stop contacting her for a month and confess (as her to date me) in my birthday next month”.

    My suggestion, another plan you can consider, is to tell her any time, soon, how you feel. If you don’t want to sound too heavy, tell her how you feel in a casual way, a casual tone of voice. You can encourage her to share with you how she feels, point to her distant behavior and ask her what she feels.

    If she is able to tell you how she feels, if she feels comfortable doing that, not fearing that you will get upset or angry, that will make her feel closer to you. There is nothing much that makes a person feel close to another than the comfort in sharing honestly what one feels.

    And not just once, but ongoing.

    anita

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