Dear sk932:

You wrote that you had an experience with a guy who had a casual relationship with you while he liked another girl and wanted to be with her. He didn’t tell you that he was in love with another woman and it is his dishonesty that hurt your feelings, having been fooled, correct?

But look at this current guy’s dishonesty: “as soon as placement got over he said ‘I said I love you just cause you wanted to hear and I was just fooling you to be with you so that we could end after placement”.

It is a good thing that you don’t believe you should hit him so to correct his dishonesty, but I think that this should be addressed, it being okay with him and with you that he fooled you like he did?

anita