It really wasnt… he made one of his social media accounts professional and deleted all our pics together. Not a big deal, but he didnt warn me. When I saw all our pics gone I thought he was ending the relationship. He explained and I said sorry I misunderstood, but he was angry and said ‘Im pissed, I’ll talk to you later’. He was still angry that night and the next day he found out about his foot. When I went to see him, he was so shut down and pushed me away. Didnt want to talk and ‘go home’.

Looking back it doesnt seem like a big deal at all. In his silence, trying to process everything, should I be reaching out as support? Or let him deal with it and come when he’s got it figured out? I dont want him to come at me later with ‘i havent heard from you, I thought you said you’d be there for me’