Dear Bun:

“What is this?” – I’ll give it a try, to answer your question.

1. A feminine man does not mean a homosexual man. Plenty of masculine men are gay and plenty of feminine man are straight.

2. You can’t help liking what you like and disliking what you dislike. No use of trying so hard to eat broccoli if you dislike broccoli, better eat asparagus if you like asparagus.

3. “Unsatisfied. Is it me or him?”- it is you who are unsatisfied, that is for sure, you expressed it very clearly here.

I assume that if he knew that you don’t like a whole lot about him, I assume he would unsatisfied too. Wouldn’t he?

anita