Dear Lisa:

Yes. I remember you, welcome back. So he is a Reverend, Christian, I suppose, older, handsome, cultured, world traveled, many friends in Facebook, “well respected within his circle/the community” and yet he acts … weird, in a way that would make me think he wouldn’t have many friends and wouldn’t be respected within the community. I am puzzled too, as I was before. You brought up the fact that he is white and you are black, wondering if it has anything to do with it.

It may have some part in his unexplained behavior if you are the only black people in the church or in the group of people in church who went on that trip, or if you are the only young woman who is black in church. Are you?

anita