Hello,

1/ At the beginning he was very caring. But I guess once the puppy love stage faded he became another person, he never asked me how I was doing after I told him I was going through I rough patch with my family (1 week before the break up). He wanted to know why I seemed depressed lately, but he never really checked on me after that

2/ He never did that, at least not in front of me and he seemed concerned when he saw less fortunate people. But, he was definitely fatphobic and showed no compassion for overweight persons 🙁 I think that comes from his mother who critisized him everytime he gained some weight saying “she didn’t love him anymore now that he was fat” (yeah, that’s awful I know…)

So I would say he was generally empathetic except for those people if that makes sense ?