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Did not plan to post here again but I dunno where else to post this. First off i’m pretty sure the friendship has run its course, but remember that money part? She paid me half the money I loaned her in her time of crisis and i’ve never asked for it once since I said i’m not in a rush to get it back (i’m still not, still got plenty and I don’t wanna stress people out), saw her a few weeks ago at my work and as she was leaving she said to me as she was walking away she will message me to catch up (so another coffee) but not text me.
But she always seems to say she will be in touch now but disapears, only responds if I text her and if I’m doing all the work then I kinda float away which is why I said the friendship has run its course, not text her in a few months and 4 months before that. Anyway back to what I was saying…
I text her last night saying “Uhhh this is a little awkward to ask, but curious about that money thing? I’m sure you’re swamped now but some other time even if it’s a small amount when you have it. No idea if you remember or not and I feel like an ass for asking”, she’s been all over facebook on her phone but has not been responding to my text I gave her yesterday.
She quit her job she was working at and has 2 businesses now by doing her dream job. Is this a sign of her just going to ignore me from now on? after all this time, money will be the killer. I mean if she can’t afford to pay me back that’s fine, i’m not going to be an evil person about it but i’m not going to be handing out money anymore.