Dear Christin:

If he started talking about a future with you within two months of knowing you, that would have been alarmingly too fast to me. But the two of you had a friendship for three years prior to dating. I suppose he got excited, envisioned a future.

At that point he felt ready for a serious relationship but you were not and still, at present, you are not (“If I’m being honest I don’t know if I’m ready for a serious relationship”).

Did you let him know currently that you interested in a relationship with him but not a serious one?

anita